The holidays are over. Part of me is very thankful for
January. My life is finally back to
normal, well almost normal. Life hasn’t been the same since I’ve been engaged;
it’s been fast paced and exciting. The calls have finally died down and I now I
feel like I can retract back into my cozy apartment and relax. Sometimes I
forget that I’m a bride or that I have a wedding to plan. Not only do I have a
wedding to plan, but we have the Seattle Wedding Show this weekend. This week
is a big week for Elegant Affairs and our wedding planning team. We have
anticipated the show for almost a year now. As a team, we have planned every
detail to a tee and we are ready. I may be ready as a vendor, but am I ready as
a bride?
The Seattle Wedding Show is an experience. As a vendor we work to create a positive
atmosphere for all our brides that enter our booth. The doors open bright and
early. Before you know it, all of the brides eagerly flow in. It is
overwhelming. I have seen so many brides walk around the Convention Center with
a glazed over look on their faces. There is so much to see, so many vendors,
and amazing deals everywhere.
Everyone wants you, but who do you want? This is
what I need to remember- who do we want?
This year will be a different experience for me. I will be
working the wedding show and will be attending as bride. I will walk down the aisles
of vendors- many whom are my friends. I’ll share my fabulous news of engagement
followed by shrieks of delight. Even as a vendor, I have to think about what is
best for us. Yes, there are various deals at the wedding show, but is it true
to who we are? Will we be making a good decision choosing one vendor over the
other?
Here is my personal advice, as a wedding planner-
vendor-bride, hunting for the most magnificent wedding vendors Seattle has to
offer. This is my wedding show game plan.
- I’m going to look around at various vendors. I will look at ALL the vendors the Wedding Show has to offer. Yes, I know what vendors provide catering, or who is a florist we use on occasions, but I will take all vendors into consideration. I will be open minded. I will explore new options. I will look for a vendor that can cater to my needs.
- I will watch the fashion show. I think I have an idea for the perfect dress, but who knows what is out there? I want to visit various bridal gown vendors and see what they have to offer. Do they have off the rack dresses that can be purchased today? Are there any dresses that I love?
- I plan on trying cake, pie, and cheesecake. In no specific order. I will take multiple samples… and I may have to return for more. Just in case.
- I will look at all wedding photographers. Does this photographer have the style I am looking for? What is their turn around rate for photos?
- As for dresses, I will play a little dress up, but I will think clearly of my vision and the dress experience I would like to have.
- Most importantly, I will have fun as a bride. I will not have a glazed look over my face, or be the next contestant on Extreme Couponing. I will breathe, smile, and enjoy the ride.
The one thing I will not have to search for is an amazing
woman to coordinate our wedding day. I have had the pleasure to work for such a
supportive company over the last three seasons. Lori, the owner of Elegant
Affairs, will be standing next to me on our wedding day as a bridesmaid. As for
our wedding, it will be run by Elegant Affairs. I highly recommend hiring a
wedding coordinator. Yes, I am a wedding planner but, I will have a coordinator
run our wedding. I can do the planning, decide between lace and satin, but I
want someone to take the stress off of us so we can truly enjoy our day with
our loved ones. I want my guests, family, and friends to eat, drink, and watch
us get married- not box up the reception at the end of the night.
Don’t be shy;
wedding coordinators are here to help.
I will be working the Seattle Wedding Show with Lori, the
wonderful owner of Elegant Affairs, and two amazing woman from EA. Stop by,
give me a wave. I’d love to chat about our wedding experiences together. After
all, we are each other’s best resource.
Cheers and Happy Wedding Show ya’ll.
~Rachel
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